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5 Ways To Make Sure You Are Taking Advantage of Life’s Opportunities

Opportunities pass us by in life. It’s that simple. Sometimes we don’t even notice them, we dismiss them as an inconvenience. Often the opportunities we do recognise, we overthink the situation and they pass us by. We are embedded in our comfort zone and we are scared to move forward, so rather than grabbing an opportunity, we let it go.

Below, you can find ways to become more open to life’s opportunities. Open your mind, eyes and heart … watch the opportunities come to you once you allow them in.

1. VISUALISE THE OPPORTUNITY YOU WANT, THEN PAY ATTENTION!

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We don’t all want the same things in life, it would be a boring world if we did. So think about the opportunities you’d like to be presented with; new job, more money, holiday, new relationship etc.

Visualising and believing you already have this opportunity is a great way to attract it to you. Know what you want and then open your eyes. Opportunities will soon present themselves to you: a promotion, a new job, meeting someone.

A great way to visualise is to write down your visions, dreams, goals etc. Even create a vision board; cut out pictures from magazines or download photos from the internet, paste them onto a board and imagine that you already have these opportunities.

You have to be clear in your mind what it is you want so that the universe can deliver these opportunities to you.

2. MAKE AN EFFORT TO CONNECT AND NETWORK WITH PEOPLE

Even if you’re not the most sociable of people, there are ways to connect with the outside world. If you work in a huge corporate company, there will be ways you can talk and build relationships with other people in different departments. Make conversations when you are in the lift or passing on the stairs. A smile can lead to a, ‘Hello’, to a, ‘Gosh, it’s cold outside’ … within weeks you could be having full-blown conversations about your lives. You never know who you are talking to, you never know where these conversations can lead to … an opportunity could arise and you could be in someone’s mind, simply because you are friendly.

If you don’t have the opportunity as above, building relationships professionally online is a great way to expand your network. LinkedIn is specially designed for business. Opportunities arise through such networks constantly, but it’s about building your own profile and looking out for these opportunities, to build your own business, since now a days you can even make your business online, delivering services or selling products, since there are resources like the Best ecommerce order fulfillment companies which help businesses delivering products to clients.

Even when you’re out and about; say for example you’re in a queue, strike up a conversation with the person in front of you, or compliment a stranger on something you notice. Again, you never know who you are speaking to, you never know what opportunities could arise. And, even if no opportunities come from these random conversations, you will feel good. Passing on the love to others; making them feel good will inevitably make you feel good. Your feel-good vibes will reflect out to the universe … and the universe will deliver more feel-good vibes back.

3. VOLUNTEER / JOIN A NEW CLUB 

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Are you passionate about something? Animals? Reading? Sewing? Exercise?

You could volunteer some of your time at a local project. There are plenty of projects looking for volunteers, from animal rescue places to vulnerable people projects. What makes you happy? You never know who else is volunteering. You never know the opportunities that can arise.

If the above doesn’t float your boat, how about joining a club; a book club, a running club or flower club, these are just examples. Set-up your own club if you can’t find something locally. You will be amazed at the type of people you will meet, and these meetings could lead to something bigger and better.

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4. SAY YES!

Sounds simple, right? But how many times have you said, ‘Yes,’ to something that makes you feel uncomfortable? How many times have you stopped yourself doing something because it scares you? Makes you nervous? How many times have you thought, ‘I wish I could, but I just can’t?’ This is where you have to let go of your inhibitions. Your barriers to opening up will be preventing opportunities coming your way. This is the time to take yourself out of your comfort zone and allow opportunities in.

5. SELL YOURSELF WHEREVER YOU GO!

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Sound egotistical?

It doesn’t need to be. You don’t need to be conceited, you just need to be aware that you want people to think of you if an opportunity was to arise. For example; you want your boss to think of you when an opening for manager arises. Or even on a relationship level, you want Linda, from accounts, to think about you when her nephew becomes single.

It’s about being out there. It’s about others knowing about you. Selling yourself isn’t about talking all about YOU! YOU! YOU! It’s about interacting with others. Selling yourself is not only about your skills and abilities, it’s about your personality and character. Linda, from accounts, may like the idea that you’re not lazy and you’re very good at your job, but if you come across cold and insensitive, then you may be on her mind when her nephew is single, but it will be for the wrong reason! She’ll be keeping you far away.

Personality and character has much to do with success, in all areas of our lives. If people receive good vibes from yourself, they will automatically remember you. So wherever you go, smile, chat and be a bundle of light that people can’t forget.

Remember; the universe will deliver more light to you when you are shining yours.

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Seek All Opportunities As They Can Lead To An Amazing Life: A to Z Inspirational Blog; O is for Opportunity with Opportunity Quotes and Therapeutic Writing

A-Z Inspirational Journey 

This week’s inspirational word

O IS FOR OPPORTUNITY

 

You may have heard 101 quotes about taking the opportunities that are presented to you. I’ve included a few in this blog post. You may feel they are cliche … However, if you are to look throughout your life and think about the coincidences, the decisions, the circumstances or situations that may have been put upon you, you could easily understand how certain opportunities may have arisen from these life events.

This may not make much sense to you at the moment? But often an opportunity will arise when we need it. Sometimes we don’t see opportunities as the opportunities that they are, sometimes we see them as a hindrance. If your gut is telling you that’s not your path, that is fine, you know in your heart your purpose. Sometimes opportunities are presented so we can see what we ‘don’t’ want. If we’re thinking about what we ‘don’t’ want, we are attracting this to us, however, this is a great way to self-analyse and channel your thoughts into what you do want, so the universe can present you with sought-after opportunities. Even if this opportunity is presented as a difficulty, be the person who wants to make a change in your life and grab it with both hands, as a difficulty and a challenge could lead you to the wonderful life you deserve.

If opportunities do arise it means we have to think. We have to truly think about what we want. I truly believe opportunities will arise to test you, this isn’t God or the angels playing games, this is simply them guiding you to your purpose. So if an opportunity arises and you feel it is not right for you, it probably isn’t. However, there will be opportunities that you may have passed quickly and decided they weren’t for you, when in fact they may have guided you down the right path. Do not despair … these opportunities will come round again in a different form. Another gateway, another avenue … you have a purpose, it needs fulfilling, you will be guided down this route until you believe it. You must believe it.

Believing in yourself, your purpose, your reason for being … opportunities will be gifted to you. So don’t dismiss an opportunity because it doesn’t look like something you want, it could easily be an avenue into something that you do want. So look closely and make it work for you.

 

In this week’s therapeutic writing exercise think about opportunities you wish to arise in the future.

Here, I could have asked you to look at opportunities that you have missed that you wished you hadn’t, however, this focuses on the negative. It is hard to turn that missed opportunity into a positive, because it may not come around again in the same form. It will come back around again, if it’s meant to be, just on a different path, in a different way. So this week, ask yourself if you could have an opportunity to arise, what would it be?

Write it down …

Now write about the positive impact this opportunity would have on your life. Keep writing until you feel the desire for this opportunity so bad, you will make the universe create it for you … the universe is listening … it is ready to deliver when you are ready to receive.

Remember: Positive messages throughout the day, helps the negative thoughts stay away.

So be inspired daily with this

free inspirational guide.

Love & happiness to you always

Victoria xx